Why Fathers are Important in Daughters’ Lives
Paul Mandelstein, in his recent book Always Dad, advises divorced dads to find ways to play a crucial role in their daughter’s life. He recommends that divorced parents call a truce and put an end to fighting and collaborate together. He says the father-daughter connection is very much influenced by the consistency in contact as well as the quality of the relationship.
Ways That Fathers Can Become Closer With Their Daughter
He has some tips on how fathers can develop a closer bond with their daughters.
-Don’t talk badly about your ex, as this may make it more difficult for her to heal from the losses associated with the divorce.
-Try to find ways to help her build her self-esteem by encouraging her to develop interests and recognize her strengths.
-If there are any father-daughter wounds, attempt to help her repair them. Spend quality time doing things she enjoys. Find ways to establish connections through activities and phone calls.
-Encourage her to spend almost equal time with both parents. Be flexible, especially in the teen years, when she may need more time for her friends, school, jobs, and extracurricular activities.
At Stange Law Firm, PC, we believe in the importance of family and try to help those families who have been separated. If you are facing a divorce, we can help. Stange Law Firm, PC is solely a family law firm that practices in the areas of divorce, child custody, child support, paternity, and other domestic relations issues.
Source: Fathers and Daughters: Staying Connected After Divorce, By Terry Gaspard, MARRIAGEANDSEPARATION.com